Love Marriage-Arrange Marriage

There is no big difference -love marriage is a type of arrange marriage which is decided by themselves(boy+girl) with all the future calculation, earlier which is done by parents. The only difference in arrange marriage and love marriage is, that there is all family is involved in decision with the boy or girl so decision may be better. But it is true only about democratic families  where every member of family has equal right.But in some cases  only one person who is generally leader of the family(father) takes a decision on his parameters than the decision of marriage can be wrong or the girl or boy who is going to be married on behalf of that decision,is not satisfied with the decision or his /her wishes did not taken properly than they can ruined the marriage.Again in that situation the decision of one person (proper arranged marriage) can be wrong.Its all about the priorities. When someone think about marriage and love somebody than love comes to an end when marriage held because it was the aim of that love.So the difference of love marriage and arrange marriage is depends on the criteria of the person. And future calculation,security etc are the criteria than one can take a decision with his family if it is democratic or they can glamorised it in the name of love but it is also a type of arrange marriage which is arrange  by both(the girl-the boy).

BOL

'Bol' is very nice movie.It is Pakistani movie.The story of Bol is not a one line story,It is mixture of fundamentalism, narrow religious interpretations of holy books, It is about problem of over population.It is about third zender or other zender Identities.One can say that is is movie about pakistani women. According to feministic  perspective it is story of women liberation from patriarchal framework of traditional family.The main character of movie is a lady who is elder sister in her family. His father is self proclaimed knowledge holder of  religious books.He always try to find solutions of his problems in his religious books and interpret them according to his own specific perspective which make him as a villain in this story.But the massage of story shows that he is also a victim of his own conditional thinking  process.Movie raise a very right question that if none has the right to kill anyone  than  y people  have the right of giving birth to their child,if they are not able to fulfill their stomach .

WAGHA TOUR

It was  very nice tour.We visit the golden temple ,durgyana temple,jallianwala bag and  Amartsar airport.Sitting at the border of India Pakistan  was a amazing experience.We enjoyed a lot with friends while singing and dancing in bus with the help of mike.The only thing which i want to mention hear it is about the Wagha border. Now it becomes a tourist place because of the anger the way of parade of military from both the sides.Everyone is very much attracted about the way of parade Than it is necessary for the military of both the side  to maintain the high temper of anger while flag ceremony.Otherwise The wagha border also become a normal place like other border points.But is it good both the countries that always put on the fire by these techniques at border. Does peace friendship and cooperation does not matter.Does it not possible that the anger point become peace  and friendship point.The slogan of friendship should be higher instead of slogans of hate and anger.The throwing flowers from each sides and exchange of gifts is a dream only. Can it be possible in future.I remember a nice example  of a cricket match  series which had held in Pakistan and the environment of friendship and positiveness was very high at that time.And one very interesting thing,  whenever i meet any Pakistani at yahoo chat they chat very nicely and in a very respected manner.If it possible in these example than why not at Wagha border? Friends think and rethink about it.Its very dangerous tendency to maintain anger across the broders.